The life I want

I have only one precious life to live. And I will not let it down. Because I'm the designer of it. I'll make it to the best life.

I don't know where I'll go, but I surely know I'll go somewhere beautiful. 

I'll fulfill all the dreams that I see with open eyes.

I'll fly,

float,

dive,

And touch the clouds,

I'm gonna sit on top and will keep watching every tiny little things below for hours and hours..

I'll break all the boundaries and will run far.. far away to see the world..

I fall

I rise...

I fly...

Oh! Don't worry! I'll not be lost.

I am already on the way of it..

10 Fun Facts About Me..

 Hello there. This is Rimpa. I'm a pure bengali girl. Well, I don't know whether these things about me will be interesting or boring for you, but I want to share those with you.

So, here are 10 fun facts about me - 

1. Love watching cartoons:

I just love to watch cartoons. Even still at the age of 23, I love to watch Doraemon, Shin chan, Mickey mouse, Tom & Jerry, Mr. Bean, Barbie and so many others. When I was in 10th grade I used to eat while watching cartoon just before I go for my final exams. I was so addicted with them.

2. Painting Hobby:

My favorite hobby is painting, sketching, doodling that I could never give up. I do this since I was 8year old.  It is the most important part of my life. 

(Image source: My phone galary) Walter white from BREAKING BAD. 

 3. I am a huge fan of Marvel cinematic universe series:

I love the MCU series. It always fascinates me. I never get bored watching them. Though 1st time I watched  The Averages (2012) when I was in 1st year of my graduation. I liked it and google about them aaaand started to watch by orders with Iron man (2008). Since then, The MCU series are the top of my favorites. My favourite characters are Thor and Black widow, loki.

4. Imagining things:

I have a great ability of imaginations. Yes, Imagination. I can imagine things like real. But of course, when I am all alone. Like, if I want to go to somewhere where it's all green or to a sea beach , I simply put earphone and play kinda songs and start to imagine that I am at the sea beach , sitting , listening music, feeling breezes, sun is setting, people around me. And it's like I feel the breezes in real. I love to imagine things. 

(Image source: my phone galary) I made this pen sketch from my imagination

5. Confused career:

Umm.. I have been so confused about my career as well as my life. It's not a good thing. And I know that . But I couldn't help it. I took science in higher secondary and after that chemistry as main subject for graduation. But I was still confused what should I do for getting a early job. I wasted 1 year of thinking that. Now I am doing Masters in Chemistry and with this I'm preparing for competitive jobs. I don't know what I am doing. But one thing I always do is believing in myself. Everything happens with time. 

6. Reading Books:

Reading books were not one of my favorites when I was a kid. I started reading novels during my 12th standard . I started with a Bengali novel. And gradually my interest of reading stories had increased.. and till now I have already read many novels in Bengali as well as in english. These days I'm reading George Orwell's 1984. 

7. Traveling :

I want to travel the world. This is one of my dream. But believe me I went out of my state for travel only 2times in my life. Ugh! I want to travel more.. alone or with friends.  I always keep searching for places to travel. I believe my dream will come true one day. 

8. Emotions: 

I am very emotional. My face is like a mirror of my soul. My tears are always ready to flow out of my eyes. Everytime I cry while reading any emotional story or while watching emotional scene of any movie. I can't hide my tears. 

9: My First Job:

My first job was in a salon as an assistant manager . But the fun fact was I did that job only for one month. And i quit. Umm.. that's because I couldn't give time to myself after 10hours working time. Whatever I do , I need a minimum time only for myself .. to think, to read. And also I was doing my masters and I needed to study for that too.

10: A super lazy person: 

Duh! Help me out (screaming) . 

Share some fun fact about yourself.

HOBBIES ARE NOT A WASTE OF TIME

HOBBIES..

HOBBY means an activity pursued for pleasure or relaxation. Hobbies

help us to discover ourselves and to find our inner peace. HOBBIES allow us to destress ourselves. It helps us to build confidence. Doing the things you love is not a waste of time. Hobbies can bring adventure to life as well as opportunity for personal development.    

some people even choose their hobbies as their main occupation. 

I am a student and I also have hobbies that make me feel happy and help me to find my inner peace. It helps me to reduce my boredom.  

MY HOBBIES

PAINTING, DRAWING, SKETCHING, DOODLING:  I love painting. Its like Art runs through in my veins. When I paint or draw something I forget about all my problems. I feel distressed, Relaxed, more productive. Doodling helps me to think, to concentrate on my thoughts. I do this since my childhood. With the time I am becoming more productive, I can feel this. I want to share some of my paintings with you. Hope you will like them. 

I'm on Instagram as @la_artista_82. Install the app to follow my photos and videos. https://www.instagram.com/invites/contact/?i=tkjc5wh0rh1s&utm_content=1d96w9m

• READING BOOKS, NOVELS, STORIES: Reading is a great way to develop our personality. I also read when I get bored. I thing this is why now I can write at least something I feel or what I want to express to others. I love to read historical romance, fantasy, science fiction, mystery, drama. Here also I want to share my favorite books I read recently.      

The Book Thief (Definitions Young Adult) https://www.amazon.in/dp/1909531618/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_i_pZpLFbZSVJFDP

To Kill A Mockingbird: 50th Anniversary Edition: 60th Anniversary Edition https://www.amazon.in/dp/0099549484/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_i_YZpLFbRRK1AJ0

The Alchemist https://www.amazon.in/dp/8172234988/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_i_dlC_S0pLFb4523Q6A

1984 https://www.amazon.in/dp/9389053730/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_i_t0pLFb8HRJXFR?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1

The Palace of Illusions: 10th Anniversary Edition https://www.amazon.in/dp/9386215969/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_i_p1pLFbGED13T4

The Power of your Subconscious Mind https://www.amazon.in/dp/8192910962/ref=cm_sw_r_other_apa_i_dlC_T1pLFbF8TW1G5

• GARDENING: Gardening is an activity growing and cultivating plants. It is a great exercise for both the body and mind. There's many benefits of gardening. It helps us to improve our Brain function as well as mental focus. Spending time with your potted plants is a great stress relief medicine. 
• PHOTOGRAPHY: Photography is  great for hobby. It allows you to hold lots of memories of events , places and times. All you need to do is make an effort to look. It's all about the light. Photography is a creativity. And creativity is fun and allows to make balance against our stressful life. 

There's other hobbies too like

• DANCING
• SINGING
• PLAYING INSTRUMENTS
• BLOGGING OR WAITING
• FISHING
• CRAFTING
• COLLECTING
• MUSIC
• COOKING
• KNITTING
• TRAVELING
• PEOPLE WATCHING
• YOGA 

And many more...

"Life without hobbies is just like... A wire without current."

Hobbies always help us to prevent negativity and bad habits. When you fill up your free time with a good hobby, you will be less likely to spend the time on negetive thoughts. 

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THANK YOU

Fill yourself up so that you can give more to others.

Hey, it's me again, I want to share one of my personal blog with you... Hope you'll like this...

 

The evening of january

Evenings of january... shadows lengthen and cool breeze returns, sky looks drowsy with the flickering flame of the setting sun.. 

I was walking on my tired legs thinking of going home after all day outing with my cousin.

 

My phone beeped with a short text, "I've arrived just now, where are you? when will you come?"

This brought me a broad smile on my face. In a moment I forgot my tiredness. I asked my cousin to come with me to meet the person. she agreed. we immediately booked a cab and set off to go there.

I was exhilarated.. excited but nervous. Finally , We reached to the place. There was He, standing on a corner of the entrance door of a cafe waiting for us. 

He: "Hey.. you took so long.. where have you been? lets go inside. I'm hungry.."

I couldn't say any word except giving a smile.

My heart was beating so fast I couldn't imagine. And why this will not happen..! 

Afterall, He was the love of my life. I was totally infatuated with him. I had a feeling of deep affection for him.

After being separated this was our first meet. We directly went to the cafe counter as we all were famished and ordered burger for all of us. The fun fact was I had to paid the bill. ugh...! 

we talked hours and hours sitting there. Though my cousin didn't like him for the way he talks. Its like he is full of self-worth and always shows he is superior over others. In real, he is actually like this. He is not really trust worthy. This is a one of a big reason of our break up. Our relation was full of Lies he made. And I blindly believed that. Even the break up.. He made unforgivable lies to end it. 

But somehow, after a long time, we started to talk again.. and this time.. he said He fall for me. Now he truly feel for me. This makes me to feel really happy... whenever he says it. Some part of me wanted to give a chance again..  

But...

Yeah.. there's always a but... 

But..At the end he always made things worse for me. Always he did it trying to prove he was the only right person. In a word, he was totally an 'immature' person for me. Eventually I felt , I can't spend my whole life with him. He is not the one.

But its not like I had only bad times with him.

Those days were very perfect for me when I was in it. We used to spend time together by roaming here and there. I used to sit back of his cycle. Caring. Laughing. waiting for each other on bus stand. Spending time on the river side... These memories still make me stop and smile. I feel happy whenever I think of these.

Time to return. No.. not in that relation which makes me feel less.. It's time to go back to home. We bid goodbye to each other. He told me that day also to ping him after reaching home. We spent a good time all together that day. It brought me a lot of memories.

But I am happy, I made a better decision for me. And I do not feel sad for loving him. My feeling was true. Love is not always staying together. I am proud of me for choosing myself over the relationship. Yes, I loved him. And I do not regret this. I have learned that life is not really easy. you have to make it easy. 

I was overwhelmed with  my emotions that evening. 

And here.. life goes on....

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Thank you

How does reading help us to make a better life.

Hi.. It's me again, Rimpa..! 

I'm here to share my thoughts about life and imaginations with you. 

So today I've came to discuss how does reading help us to improve our personality. 

Well, some people do not really like reading. And most of us prefer visual or auditory ones rather than reading books. That's cool but really not enough.

How habit of reading help us to build a better personality: 

• Helps you to see things from different angles. 

According to study, Reading books allows people to see things from different angles or from other's points of view which helps us to understand others better.

• Gain confidence.

Reading helps great to build your confidences. Take me as an example... I had a lack of confidence until I started reading more and more various types of book. I couldn't easily decide anything , what if  I get a worse outcome...! These things always happened to me. But see I am here with my little blog. I can write without any fear. 

If I can.. you can too. 

• Broaden your imagination.

When you read any story book , it helps you to practice your imagination how described by the words of the book. You will start picturize the situation of the story. It allows you to feel what the characters feel in the story. This is how it helps to wide open our mind and to see things through new possibilities and ideas. 

• Reduce your stress and stay calm.

No metter how much stressed you are, when you lose yourself in a story it goes away. And if you start to read some spiritual subjects, it has the power to bring you about an immense sence of clam and inner peace. 

• Focusing and concentration. 

At least try to read 20-30 minutes daily. When you read a story you give your all attention on it to gain a better understanding in every details described there by words. It says, The more we read, the more our brains are able to link cause and effect. It helps to improve your brain connectivity. Start to read once and lose yourself in the story , you will be surprised how much more focused you are.

• Improving writing skills and vocabulary.

We can improve your vocabulary. And that will help you to make your writing skills better. You can express easily your thoughts and feelings with words. 

• Treasure of knowledge.

Books are a real treasure of knowledge on various topics. You'll become more intelligent and smarter and more productive.

Some books will help you to a great start- 

https://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifestyle/25-incredible-novels-you-must-read-least-once-your-life.html

There is many mone benefits of reading. Start with some fictional story books. 

However it's never too late to begin.

Comment and Share if you like this. 

let me know what you think about reading and how you reduce your stress. 

Read daily, improve your personality.

Thank you

My first blog about positive lifestyle.

Hi..! This is Rimpa.. 

I am here to share my thoughts, imaginations, positivity and life with you.  

Life is so precious. Isn't it? 

We don't sure about our past life or future life.. but we surely know about our present life. So we can't let it be wasted. 

Start Thinking... Start now.

Ever felt lost or alone? Ever felt like you aren't good enough for anything? ..

Then yes, you are in a right place. 

You will be helped to find yourself.

POSITIVITY  

Positivity means a positive viewpoint and outlook. Positivity is everywhere in everything. What you just need is to find it. Life isn't so easy, no one can live a total peaceful life. Problems are everywhere around you. But this is you.. only you who have the capability to end it. Just try to find at least 1% of the positivity in that negative thought or the problem. And keep believing in that 1% positivity. Believe me, Solution will come by its own.

Positive lifestyle leads us to success.

 

Some tips for staying positive in every situation: 

1. Sleep properly at night.

2. Wake up early in morning everyday         with a positive vibe. Go for walk               and breath fresh air in the morning.

3. Do not focus on the problems, focus       only on the solutions.

4. Repeat your affirmation often

     Affirmations always help you to                overcome self-sabotaging and                negative thoughts. 

5. Do not spend excessive amount of          time in social media. It could make            us more anxious and less                          self-esteemed.

6. Do not take anything too personally.      Thinking of what people talk is                  none of our business. What they say      or do is only a projection of their own      perspective. 

7. Start focused meditation.

    How to start meditation

8. Surround yourself with positive                people and learn more.

9. Write daily journal and be more                 productive everyday. 

     How to start writing daily journal

10. Keep faith on yourself until you die.

Share if you like this. And let me know about your positive thoughts. 

Stay positive. Be faithful. 

Thank you.